Un-Resolutions

I used to make a lot of resolutions. All the classics like lose weight, eat healthier, exercise more. Or some different ones like spend more time with family, remember friends and family's birthdays. But, like a lot of people, the resolutions usually went out the window by Valentine's Day. Plenty of good intentions but very little follow through.

This year, I'm trying a new thing. I like new things. A fresh perspective on an old idea. How about this... An UNresolution.

Here's my list of UNresolutions:

1. I break my resolution to engage in critical, negative thinking and speaking. Out the window goes the words "I can't", "I could never" and other similar statements and thoughts.

2. I break my resolution to be in control of everything. This is a difficult one for me, but in the end I know I'm not in control and trying to pretend I am only separates me from the One who is.

3. I break my resolution to worry. Again, not easy. But worry, like wanting to be in control, just causes separation between me and God.

4. I break my resolution to relive my past. I am a new creation in Christ and focusing on my past mistakes and heartbreaks negates the price Jesus paid for me.

5. I break my resolution to see my future through my own eyes. That's much too small! Instead I think I'll use God's vision for my future this year.

I think I'll end there. I'm sure I could go on and on, but a small, manageable list is usually best for me.

What about you? Is there anything you want to unresolve for this year? I'd love to hear about it.